Most people who become parents are automatically transformed the day their child is born. Speaking as a mother, the love I feel towards my children is indescribable. This love will last beyond a last breath; it is stronger than the most powerful force and greater than all of the universe. No matter how they grow and mature, we want to comfort, nurture and protect them by any means necessary. We try our best to encourage and guide them down positive paths so that they can live good lives. There is an awesome love that comes with having a child. Neither distance nor time can take that “love” from you. It is your eternal gift.
For the last few weeks I have been in a crisis with my children. An issue that was beyond my control. I sometimes worry so much that whatever I am going through will start to consume me. I know the kids get nervous because I yell, I fret and I physically shut down. I honestly try my best to find the good in even the most difficult of situations. I suppose that the good part in this situation is that I am who I am and they are MY children. I am a God fearing woman. I am a praying woman. I am an anointed woman. I am a spiritually grounded and directed woman. I know that God is protecting us so; as long as my faith remains strong, my children and I will be good.
Truth is, there will indeed be storms throughout our lifetimes. Some that we are prepared for and others that we won’t even see coming. When we pray, it covers a multitude of circumstances and situations. Pray for everything whether it be good or bad. I know that we sometimes want our prayers answered immediately. It may not always seem this way; but our prayers are not in vain. God answers our prayers in His own perfect timing. When we pray constantly and consistently, we are covering ourselves and our children in the event of any situation that presents itself.
In the meantime, we must pay attention to our children. They are observant creatures and often pick up on whatever energy we are emitting. Constantly reassure them that they are loved, cared for and very necessary in your life! Watch them as they grow and respect them as they settle into their individual personalities. Allow them to flourish within their individuality even if you don’t agree with their choices. Listen when they speak to you silently. (think about that last sentence for a few minutes) Often times there are indirect signs that reveal what our children want us to know. Create a happy, peaceful and open environment where children feel safe and comfortable to talk to you. I thank God for the relationship I had with my parents because it helped me as I learned how to create those same relationships with my own children. Take control of your children before they go out into the world. Because once the world gets them, they may never return to you the same way.